Tag: New Year’s Resolutions

Day 1 – Drinking Less

Day 1 – Drinking Less

Phew! Day 1 is DONE. I have to admit that video is VERY challenging for me. I am very self conscious of the way I look and the way I talk. That’s why I like to write, because you don’t have to see or listen to me!

But I wanted to explore video this year because it is very popular right now. Part of my hope for this project is to become a more confident speaker.

As I said, my husband and I had a great New Year’s Eve. Our friends Mike and Azad had a party and it was a lot of fun. We really enjoyed spending time with friends as well as Mike and Azad’s dogs.

Mike and Azad have several dogs, some that they own and some that they foster. Bruno, a pitbull/boxer mix, decided to snuggle next to me on the couch while we watched the ball drop. He is so adorable. Just look at this face:

Bruno

I also enjoyed spending time with Freddy, whose personality resembles a crotchety old man who you can’t help but love. Freddy doesn’t see very well, and whenever he came across a wall or corner he would start barking at it. As if he was saying,”Hey! Get out of my way, wall!”

This is Freddy in a dinosaur costume:

fred-dinosaur

Quick plug! Azad volunteers for a couple of Animal Rescue organizations: S.N.O.R.T. (Short Noses Only Rescue Team) and Save One Soul Animal Rescue League. If you live in the Boston area and are looking for a dog, please consider adopting from these wonderful organizations!

Anyway… I only had three beers at the party over the course of several hours. One of my goals for 2015 is to drink less. Mostly for health reasons (I gained back the 20 lbs. I worked so hard to lose last year… whoops), but also for financial reasons.

friends-no-drinking

The money I save will be put toward travel. I plan to make traveling more of a priority because I LOVE traveling. So every time I wish to buy beer or wine, I’m going to imagine myself drinking beer or wine in an exotic location I’ve never been to before.

So there.

Also, this year will be our 5th year wedding anniversary. I want to go on an awesome trip with my husband! We have a few ideas about where we want to go, but nothing is solidified yet. I will keep you posted!

Happy New Year, everyone! Stay tuned for more #30DaysProud posts!

Introduction: 30 Days Proud Project

Introduction: 30 Days Proud Project

Happy New Year, everyone!

As you can see from what I posted above, I am venturing into the world of video for the new year. That was about my 7th or 8th attempt. My first few attempts failed because I had to learn to speak CONFIDENTLY and not sound boring.

Seriously, I sounded like these ladies:

Good times, good times.

I don’t really do New Year’s resolutions, but this project just happened to coincide with the new year. I have depression, and this time of year is usually harder for me. I put on a good front for the sake of the holidays, but I tend not to feel too great inside.

I’m hoping that this project will give me more confidence and help me live more positively.

My husband challenged me to this project because he noticed that every time I talk about one of my accomplishments, I lace it with something negative.

For example, the other day he reminded me about how hard I worked to earn my bachelor’s degree. I immediately followed it up with, “But that was after I dropped out of college, and now most people I know have their master’s degrees.”

That’s my depression talking. So the rule he gave me was that any accomplishments I share or things that I’m proud of cannot be laced with any negativity. I cannot downplay my accomplishments in any way with statements like the above.

The things I’m proud of must also be my OWN accomplishments, or reasons why I think I’m awesome. So the other rule is that I cannot say things like, “I’m proud of my brother for __________.” Each day I have to share something about ME (as much as I love complimenting and recognizing other people).

So here goes! Join me on my journey and share what you’re proud of (if you feel inclined) by using the hashtag #30DaysProud. I intend to use video for this project, but you can share your #30DaysProud in a blog, social media post, etc.

Happy New Year, everyone! I look forward to sharing this project with you for the next 30 days!

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